Fantasy Versus Reality
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 9, 2015
- 2 min
Open Letter to the Students and Parents in Oak Park, MO
To the Students of Oak Park HS in Kansas City, MO and their parents: Thank you. Thank you all for standing up for your classmate. I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 9, 2015
- 3 min
My Mr. Potato Head Fantasy
I have written here about being agendered. I am working on an extended piece for my next book. In doing that, I have been speaking with...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 7, 2015
- 7 min
Six-Way Sex
I teach a class about setting a scene from the submissive’s perspective. I spend about 90 minutes talking about engaging the 5 senses and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 5, 2015
- 6 min
Yes Means Yes – Baby Steps
California has enacted SB695, a law which will now required high schools in California to teach students about the concept of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 30, 2015
- 6 min
The Most Amazing Lie Ever Marketed
In undergrad, I had a class that did a case study on Corinthian leather. In 1974, Chrysler launched a media campaign boasting about their...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 27, 2015
- 4 min
10,000 hours
Lots of people claim to be an expert in kink and BDSM. I bring this up because recently a couple of people referred to me as an “expert.”...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 22, 2015
- 2 min
Bisexual Awareness Day
September 23rd is Bisexual Awareness Day. Why have a special day for Bisexuals? Because we get hit with fear and distrust from both the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 18, 2015
- 5 min
Bodies in Porn
I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 16, 2015
- 7 min
Hooking Up
So I found the above meme last week on Facebook. I have shared it with a few dozen friends. Almost unanimously we laugh and identify...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 14, 2015
- 7 min
#1 Tip For Amazing Sex
Want to have amazing sex, and I mean mind-blowingly good sex? Want your partners to think you are the best they have ever had? Want to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 8, 2015
- 6 min
To Be “Real”
You Got To Be Real – Cheryl Lynn (1978) There are few things in English I hate more than the insistence of modifying a social construct...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 2, 2015
- 1 min
HUMP Festival Entry – FDA Approved
Ok, so for all of you unfamiliar with the HUMP Festival, here is the down low: Its an amateur porn festival sponsored by The Stranger in...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 28, 2015
- 6 min
Mantra
I stand on the shoulders of giants. Men and women and transfolks who came before me, fought the impossible fights, loved with great...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 24, 2015
- 4 min
Chasing the O
Being part of the kink and BDSM community provides an alternative conception of what is a good sexual encounter.In the vanilla-ish...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 20, 2015
- 8 min
We Need to Talk
We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 18, 2015
- 4 min
Humiliation Play
Humiliation is something that most people avoid if at all possible. Many of us have had that moment at work or with friends where...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 10, 2015
- 6 min
Six Questions EVERYONE Should Answer About Sex (and 5 To Stop Asking Sexual and Gender Minorities)
I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 6, 2015
- 9 min
Discipline, Punishment and Abuse
I went to a meeting of submissives this week and an interesting discussion question was posed: What is the difference between discipline,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 3, 2015
- 8 min
Kink Visibility
I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...
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