Shy? Here is how to open up
Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 3, 2019
- 1 min
How BDSM Can Make Sex Accessible
Howdy Readers! I’m quite in this article along with Kristie Shultz who is an awesome disability advocate and educator! Disability...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 2, 2019
- 3 min
7 Reasons to Masturbate Regularly
Most folks I meet assume that I have sex all the time so I must not need to masturbate. Truth be told, my partner lives a couple of hours...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 25, 2019
- 5 min
Single and Submissive: What is a subby type to do?
Most of us can identify to some extent with these memes in the heading. Long periods of time in adulthood without regular sex with...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 15, 2019
- 4 min
Journaling (when you HATE to write)
Journaling is a common communication technique recommended in the kink community. However, most of us hate to write. I include myself in...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 2, 2019
- 5 min
“We Need to Talk”: Ambiguity in Relationships
“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 8, 2019
- 4 min
Submissives and Self Care
Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 11, 2019
- 4 min
What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9, 2019
- 1 min
Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2019
- 7 min
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 27, 2018
- 1 min
New Reviews!
Hello Sexy Readers! I have been away doing thing…. mainly testing products and services for you. I have a new section on this blog in the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 11, 2018
- 1 min
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 6, 2018
- 6 min
Topping From the Bottom
I can’t believe I haven’t written a blog post on topping from the bottom! How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 27, 2018
- 10 min
10 Things Everyone Can Learn from Kink
One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 1, 2018
- 6 min
How to Love Your Anxious Partner
Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 21, 2018
- 9 min
Negotiation 101 for Subby Types
We talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 31, 2018
- 3 min
What 100 Hours of Talking to Sexy Peeps Taught Me
I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 23, 2018
- 5 min
5 Questions for a Kinky First Date
The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 12, 2018
- 5 min
Sexual Healing (part 2)
When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 27, 2018
- 5 min
Sexual Healing (part 1)
The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
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