I am an accidental sex/kink blogger. This site started five years ago as a book promotion site for a book I really didn’t think too many...

Guest Post by Jett Oxy Perhaps you have always fantasized about binding balls, but not quite sure about your ability to pull it off?...

There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...

There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...

Fear is innate to the kink experience. The is the fun and sexy fear of not knowing what is going to happen to you during a scene. There...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...

Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...

Howdy Readers! I’m quite in this article along with Kristie Shultz who is an awesome disability advocate and educator! Disability...

Most folks I meet assume that I have sex all the time so I must not need to masturbate. Truth be told, my partner lives a couple of hours...

Most of us can identify to some extent with these memes in the heading. Long periods of time in adulthood without regular sex with...

Journaling is a common communication technique recommended in the kink community. However, most of us hate to write. I include myself in...

“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...

Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...

I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...