Beyond ” Me Too”
This weekend, the call for women (sic, originals post was problematically gendered) to post “me too” on their Facebook page to indicate...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 26, 2017
- 5 min
Sex and the Resistance
It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 16, 2017
- 4 min
Submission and Vulnerability
It is probably the most common thing I hear or see written about submission: The submissive is really the one in charge. The sub can stop...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 26, 2016
- 7 min
Consent: 2016 sstyle
One of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 7, 2016
- 5 min
Triggers
Talking about “triggers” and starting posts and group discussions with “trigger warnings” is now de riguer in the kink community. It has...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 3, 2016
- 4 min
Protecting Men with a National Safe Word
By now, you have probably seen images from BDSM/kink movies or pornography. You may have tied up a date or given someone a spanking. It’s...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 8, 2016
- 3 min
“Did you say ‘no?'”
When someone says they were raped, many people ask, “So, did you say ‘no?'” It is a common question in court and in police...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 23, 2016
- 4 min
So, What is Sex-Positive & Why Do I Care?
Sex positive has become a new catchphrase in the professional word of sex educators and writers and body-positive movement folks. I am...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 10, 2016
- 7 min
Consent, 2016 Style
Consent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 2, 2016
- 4 min
Consent.
I was working on my next blog post about measures around sex and research findings and planned on posting it today, then the American...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 22, 2016
- 6 min
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!
We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 11, 2016
- 3 min
New Rape Prevention Curriculum
The first time I underwent education to prevent rape was in 7th grade. I was 11 years old. The girls PE class was given a week of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2016
- 5 min
30th Anniversary
This year marks 30 years of activism for me. In 1986 I started my first volunteer gig with and HIV/AIDS outreach and support organization...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 21, 2015
- 3 min
Cheating
If you practice consensual non-monogamy, can you cheat? The short answer is, “Yes.” I practice ethical non-monogamy. My friends who are...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 5, 2015
- 6 min
Yes Means Yes – Baby Steps
California has enacted SB695, a law which will now required high schools in California to teach students about the concept of...
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