You’ve Done Everything!!!
Okay, yes, I have done a lot of things. And yes, I have done a lot of people. And sure, I talk about some of it. But, no I haven’t done...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 10, 20155 min read
Is Sex Always Part of BDSM?
I have had a bunch of conversations lately about incorporating sex into BDSM play. Some people have to have both in a session, others do...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20152 min read
Geeks, Nerds, Grammar Nazi’s and Kink
http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/grownups.png xkcd.com/150/ In many, many ways I am a nerd. I am an academic and still default to researching...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20154 min read
World AIDS Day
HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 18, 20154 min read
So, you want to date a poly girl…
Guys, some of us girls have found out your secrets. We know that there are a lot of you who use online dating sites to find Ms. Right Now...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 15, 20154 min read
Etiquette: How Not to be a Dick
One of the things I like most about the BDSM/kink community is the presence of rules and structure. These come in basic rules for...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 29, 20157 min read
The ‘Woo’ of Kink
My last post about sub space got a flood of responses. Most of the 3,000+ people who replied here and on Fetlife were very complimentary....
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 25, 20156 min read
What Everyone Needs to Know About Sub Space
Image from www.korucorner.co.nz All rights reserved. When I was an undergrad, I took a course on altered states of consciousness. The...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 22, 20156 min read
Born This Way?
There is a local comedian in Sacramento who does a great joke. She starts with the premise that her parents used to spank her. Now, she...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 17, 20153 min read
Its Not All About Sex
Okay, I get that most people not in the kink community believe that kink and BDSM only refer to sex. I get that kink and BDSM are very...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 15, 20158 min read
Fantasy Versus Reality
Copyright Eddy-Shinjuku. All rights reserved. I have the great pleasure of talking to lots of people about their fantasies. Some of this...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 27, 20154 min read
10,000 hours
Lots of people claim to be an expert in kink and BDSM. I bring this up because recently a couple of people referred to me as an “expert.”...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 28, 20156 min read
Mantra
I stand on the shoulders of giants. Men and women and transfolks who came before me, fought the impossible fights, loved with great...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 3, 20158 min read
Kink Visibility
I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20159 min read
10 Things for Newbies to Think About
I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 13, 20154 min read
The Flavor of “Sir”
I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...
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