Rebecca BlantonJan 4, 20173 minYou Want Hair Where!?!Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...
Rebecca BlantonDec 29, 20165 minWhat 2016 Can Teach You About RelationshipsBy most accounts, unless you are a rape-y cheeto with narcissistic personality disorder, this was a shit year. People are hoping 2017...
Rebecca BlantonDec 20, 20163 minEthical MonogamyPeople who practice ethical non-monogamy talk a lot about what it means to be ethical in a non-monogamous relationship. But what about...
Rebecca BlantonDec 19, 20163 min36 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner(s)Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...
Rebecca BlantonDec 13, 20164 minPronoun WarsThe presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...
Rebecca BlantonDec 6, 20165 minGood Kinky Fun vs. AbuseIf I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...
Rebecca BlantonNov 27, 20165 minIt Burns When I Pee!!!Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
Rebecca BlantonNov 22, 20163 minGiving ThanksSince Thanksgiving is this week in the United States, I am going to step out of the series of posts on community building and give thanks...
Rebecca BlantonNov 21, 20165 minAnd What Did Protocol Give You?I love protocols. I have found safety and security in protocol for years. It helps me get into submissive head space. It can create...