Rebecca BlantonDec 19, 20163 min36 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner(s)Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...
Rebecca BlantonDec 13, 20164 minPronoun WarsThe presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...
Rebecca BlantonDec 6, 20165 minGood Kinky Fun vs. AbuseIf I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...
Rebecca BlantonNov 27, 20165 minIt Burns When I Pee!!!Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
Rebecca BlantonNov 22, 20163 minGiving ThanksSince Thanksgiving is this week in the United States, I am going to step out of the series of posts on community building and give thanks...
Rebecca BlantonNov 21, 20165 minAnd What Did Protocol Give You?I love protocols. I have found safety and security in protocol for years. It helps me get into submissive head space. It can create...
Rebecca BlantonNov 19, 20165 minKinky Folks, We Better WorkHey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...
Rebecca BlantonNov 16, 20165 minThis Isn’t About JUST RaceWe are six days out from the shock of the cheeto’s election. Things are starting to clarify how various social justice groups are going...
Rebecca BlantonNov 13, 20162 minBut Will It Play in Peoria?I came out in 1988. Gay rights (it was called Gay rights at the time) were beginning to get some momentum. However, the queer movement...