California has enacted SB695, a law which will now required high schools in California to teach students about the concept of...

In undergrad, I had a class that did a case study on Corinthian leather. In 1974, Chrysler launched a media campaign boasting about their...

Lots of people claim to be an expert in kink and BDSM. I bring this up because recently a couple of people referred to me as an “expert.”...

September 23rd is Bisexual Awareness Day. Why have a special day for Bisexuals? Because we get hit with fear and distrust from both the...

I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn...

So I found the above meme last week on Facebook. I have shared it with a few dozen friends. Almost unanimously we laugh and identify...

Want to have amazing sex, and I mean mind-blowingly good sex? Want your partners to think you are the best they have ever had? Want to...

You Got To Be Real – Cheryl Lynn (1978) There are few things in English I hate more than the insistence of modifying a social construct...

Ok, so for all of you unfamiliar with the HUMP Festival, here is the down low: Its an amateur porn festival sponsored by The Stranger in...

I stand on the shoulders of giants. Men and women and transfolks who came before me, fought the impossible fights, loved with great...

Being part of the kink and BDSM community provides an alternative conception of what is a good sexual encounter.In the vanilla-ish...

We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...

Humiliation is something that most people avoid if at all possible. Many of us have had that moment at work or with friends where...

I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual...

How to identify the difference between BDSM discipline, BDSM punishment, and abuse in a realtionsihp.

I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...

We are all born naked. Everything else is drag. ~RuPaul I want to take a concept from sexual orientation and evolve it to relate to...

Now that I have been doing interviews with mainstream media folks about kink and non-monogamy, I am learning there are some pretty...

The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...

I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...