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Conceptions and understanding of race in America have long fascinated me. Race, at least for Americans, is generally a primary...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 7, 2015
- 4 min
“Normaling” – Kinky Folks and Vanilla Sex
I need to clear something up. Kinky folks do not use the term “vanilla” as a derogatory term. For us, it is simply a way to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 17, 2015
- 8 min
The Language of Love – And Why It Fails Me
I have a language problem. No, it’s not cursing (living with a 14 year old made me clean that up). It has to do with the language we use...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2015
- 8 min
New to Kink? Curios about BDSM? Start here
This is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 21, 2015
- 6 min
Non-Monogamy – Its More Popular Than You Think
For a long time it was odd to me that I could be in a social situation where my multiple intimate partners were present, we would all be...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 18, 2015
- 4 min
Finding Love in a French Press
Like most American girls, I was raised with a specific idea of what romance looked like. Romance was a guy bringing you flowers on the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 11, 2015
- 4 min
Why the Anti-Porn Folks are Wrong About 50 Shade
There are several avidly anti-porn groups that are doing huge social media pushes asking people to boycott 50 Shades of Grey. The general...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 2, 2015
- 2 min
Basic Resources for Submissives
This is the beginning of a list of vetted BDSM and kink resources. This list is intended for educational purposes, not erotica or...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 26, 2015
- 9 min
Misconceptions About BDSM and Mental Illness
(Thank you Aunt Nan for inspiring this post with your last email.) In the last year I have disclosed a couple of facts about me that most...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 12, 2015
- 6 min
Why the Movie Release of 50 Shades Concerns Me
With the upcoming release of 50 Shades the movie, there is a lot of talk on mainstream blogs about kink (e.g., Huff Post, Slate, NYT)....
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