Submissives and Self Care
Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 6, 2018
- 6 min
Topping From the Bottom
I can’t believe I haven’t written a blog post on topping from the bottom! How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 23, 2018
- 5 min
5 Questions for a Kinky First Date
The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 9, 2018
- 6 min
5 Skills for Fighting Fair in Kinky Relationships
Healthy couples fight. Most healthy couples don’t fight often, but disagreements do arise, emotions heighten and we fight. Its actually a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 3, 2018
- 4 min
If You Don’t “Get” Non-Binary, Read This
The more I read about nonbinary folks and the more I see cis folks try and talk about nonbinary folks, the more I understand that this is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 4, 2018
- 4 min
Adding the K to “LGBTQ+” – NO
There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 19, 2018
- 6 min
Switching It Up
A couple of months ago I was performing with Bawdy Storytelling and had the great pleasure of hearing Race Bannon tell a story about the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 3, 2018
- 5 min
Is Non-Binary the Future of Gender?
News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 7, 2017
- 4 min
What Most Bi Folks Won’t Tell You
Twitter has decided they want to wipe out bisexuality. Over the past week, Twitter has hidden any photos with the hashtag “bisexual.” The...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 11, 2017
- 1 min
Olly Olly Oxen Free
We come out today because Cleve designed and Gilbert sewed; Alvin danced And RuPaul doesn’t always wear pants. Leslie got the Stone Butch...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 25, 2017
- 7 min
Non-binary: Real or Rebellion?
Hello Readers! Sorry I have been away for so long. I had a severe infection and no help from doctors. But, despite the deplorable state...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 2, 2017
- 3 min
The Problem with Passing
I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 8, 2017
- 2 min
Bi Pride
It’s Pride month again. This is the second year pride comes when I have a male partner and we are exclusive. This makes pride events...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 26, 2017
- 4 min
Should Kink Assimilate?
Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 8, 2017
- 3 min
In Praise of “Just a Phase”
We are living in an age where certainty is demanded. Any time someone changes their mind or expresses any level of uncertainty, people...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2017
- 3 min
Liminal Existance
A friend of mine, an immigrant from Eastern Europe, just became an American citizen. Upon receiving her passport, she posted on Facebook...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 2, 2017
- 3 min
Kinky Resistance
Let’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 31, 2017
- 2 min
My Body, The Asshole
I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 10, 2016
- 3 min
Build Community, Not Walls
The recent election of the racist cheeto has many folks in the kink community reeling. We are hurt and horrified by the hate harbored in...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 12, 2016
- 4 min
On Certainty
At some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...
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