Resources to help manage existential dread

Queer joy is essential to surviving the next 4- 40 years. Why and how to harness your joy.

The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...

Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone

There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...

I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...

Ah, politicians are once again engaging in a favorite past-time: fanning fears of massive child predator rings as a pretense to get rid...

Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...

With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...

Happy Pride Month! This year Pride has been cancelled in most locations due to COVID-19 and celebrations are looking a bit different....

This weekend, the call for women (sic, originals post was problematically gendered) to post “me too” on their Facebook page to indicate...

In Kentucky, Democrat Mary Lou Marzain has introduced House Bill 369. HB369 requires men to get their partner’s permission before...

Let’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....

The worst part of the aftermath of being raped was being told over and over again that I must report the rape. Every health professional...

By now, you have probably seen images from BDSM/kink movies or pornography. You may have tied up a date or given someone a spanking. It’s...

Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....

I was working on my next blog post about measures around sex and research findings and planned on posting it today, then the American...

California has enacted SB695, a law which will now required high schools in California to teach students about the concept of...