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Rae Luna: I Know I’m Hot
Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...
Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20221 min read
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Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 13, 20216 min read
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7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
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How to Swing Safely During the COVID-19 Pandemic
Sponsored post: Swingtown Half the world has shut down and it’s expected to be around 14 months — at least — before a coronavirus vaccine...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 9, 20203 min read
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So You Want to Try a Threesome…
One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 28, 20208 min read
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What Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-Monogamy
Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20195 min read
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What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20194 min read
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Polyamory as a Sexual Orientation???
Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 21, 20165 min read
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You Are Not as Poly or Mono As You Think
I spend a lot of time talking to people and reading social media boards by both polyamorous and monogamous folks. Universally, people are...
Rebecca Blanton
May 15, 20163 min read
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Unicorn Hunters
First, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 26, 20165 min read
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Cheating
If you practice consensual non-monogamy, can you cheat? The short answer is, “Yes.” I practice ethical non-monogamy. My friends who are...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 21, 20153 min read
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So, you want to date a poly girl…
Guys, some of us girls have found out your secrets. We know that there are a lot of you who use online dating sites to find Ms. Right Now...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 18, 20154 min read
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Is Jealousy Ever Healthy in a Relationship?
The above image was posted on a poly board I am a part of and it started a short conversation. I had more to say about it than a Facebook...
Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20156 min read
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