https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-nedai-12123a6 Guest: Rain De Grey (author, performer, advice columnist, podcaster) Rain De Grey pursues experiences and is constantly creating. She produces and hosts the podcast Dirty Talk, writes the advice column “Dirty Talk,” teaches in kink and BDSM, and is the star of more than two dozen erotic films. We talk the drive to create, neurodivergence, teaching, and living the life you want. Rain goes deep into how autism, ADHD, and CPTS

Happy Holidays! Here is a little kinky holiday porn for y’all. CW: Impact play, body fluids Elise sat by the fire on the early morning of December 26 sipping a strong cup of black coffee. No matter how many times Richard made this run, and it had been hundreds of times since they married, was she able to sleep. The clock on the mantle showed it was just after seven in the morning. It was still dark outside. This far north it stayed dark nearly 24 hours a day in December. For

Sponsored post: Swingtown Half the world has shut down and it’s expected to be around 14 months — at least — before a coronavirus vaccine is developed. In the meantime, social distancing measures are the only way to curb the spread of the virus. While this might be a small price to pay in exchange for saving countless lives, it does make certain things (i.e. dating and sexual activities like swinging) frustratingly difficult. Luckily, it’s not impossible. Our friends over at

Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet paper reserves.” Orgies are being cancelled. And bars are limited capacity or closed. So, what are kinky folks to do? The coronovirus is so bad gays are starting to just sleep with their boyfriends again. Lana Del Gay (Twitter) There are actually lots of safe and fun ways to keep the kink up while still practicing social distancing. Its totally

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-k2rgx-a92a11 Guests: Paul Imagine (adult toy store owner) and Lindsay Hoppe (sex toy reviewer) Auntie Vice and CharRon chat about their feelings about sex toys, being a couple where Auntie Vice embraces sex toys and CharRon is much more hesitant, and using sex toys as a couple. Paul Imagine talks about owning an adult toy store, how folks can get the most out of a visit to their local brick and mortar sex toy dealer, and how many people

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our most interesting guests. Alice in Bondageland talks pet play and why people would be into kink. Bevin (Fat Kids Dance Party) talks about the importance of self-care and how she goes about self-care with her incredibly demanding schedule. #kink #bdsm #podcast #petplay #relationships #selfcare #bodypositive #sexpositive #love #health #fat #wome

I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a perfect excuse to call sexy, powerful people I have long admired and talk to them about their bodies. The folks on the show have a huge range of careers, personal histories, sexual orientations, gender orientations, races, and romantic styles. From comics to sex educators, porn stars, nurses and software engineers, they have a few things in com

With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is undeniable that Playboy has shaped the ideas of women, sex, and beauty for a huge percentage of Americans since it began publication in 1953. It has peppered the landscape of American sex for the better part of 70 years and has impacted American’s ideas of sex in ways few other magazine’s ever have. My introduction to Playboy was not traditio

We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is critical that we talk to kids about what porn is, the messages in porn, and porn logic. I suspected that with the great proliferation of the availability of porn and “erotic romances” that kids and young adults were turning to these resources for information. A new study, profiled this week in the New York Times verified these suspicions. Re

Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism and porn before on this blog (see here). So, let’s start with the basis that 1) I do not think all porn is inherently abusive and sexist, and 2) porn can be uplifting to some women. But what does it mean to make “feminist porn?” This is a discussion taking place around the world and in a number of porn production companies. This week Vice p

I like porn. I struggle with that fact at times. I know the industry can be very exploitative and that the body images featured in porn contribute to the narrow concept of beauty. I know not everyone in porn is there of their own free will with the full desire to participate. Still, I enjoy it. I recently began two projects of my own involving visual porn (I write porn, but that is not what I am addressing here). One was my film for the HUMP Festival competition (see it here)

Ok, so for all of you unfamiliar with the HUMP Festival, here is the down low: Its an amateur porn festival sponsored by The Stranger in Seattle, WA and hosted this year by Dan Savage. There are three major categories: Best Sex, Best Kink, and Best Humor. All movies can go up for the forth category: Best in Show. Films are limited to 5 minutes. They are shown at three screenings and people vote. Winners get $$$$ and better yet, their movies get shown all over on the HUMP Tour