Is BDSM Inescapably Racist?
I love the BDSM community. I love kink. It is integral to who I am and how I see the world. I love the aesthetic, the values, and the...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 30, 2016
- 5 min
Why We Should Care About Sex Tapes
This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 26, 2016
- 7 min
Consent: 2016 sstyle
One of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 18, 2016
- 3 min
The Necessity of Loving Your Body
I had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 14, 2016
- 3 min
Americans Love Rape
The worst part of the aftermath of being raped was being told over and over again that I must report the rape. Every health professional...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 17, 2016
- 5 min
Do It For the Children! Media Representation
What is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement, but most people- even those who agree- often...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 22, 2016
- 4 min
So, What is Sex-Positive & Why Do I Care?
Sex positive has become a new catchphrase in the professional word of sex educators and writers and body-positive movement folks. I am...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 16, 2016
- 4 min
Sex-First! Polyamory Culture
First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 24, 2016
- 4 min
Relationship Red Flags
There are subtle and not so subtle signs a relationship won’t work out. The primary one I have learned to look for over the years is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 16, 2016
- 5 min
Comimg Out
I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 9, 2016
- 4 min
Its a Phase
I debated a lot before I decided to post this blog entry. I have been active in the LGBTQ movement for thirty years now. I know the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 26, 2016
- 3 min
Is This Weird???
Simple answer… yes, yes it is. Regardless of what you do, it is weird to someone. One the the most shocking things I do or say is that I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 25, 2016
- 3 min
Am I Doing this Right????
Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 3, 2016
- 5 min
On Virtue and Vice
8? 25? 105? 300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 22, 2016
- 6 min
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!
We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 18, 2016
- 3 min
Parenting Beyond the Binary
Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 10, 2016
- 5 min
Feminist Porn?
Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 4, 2016
- 7 min
Seeking BBC…
I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 26, 2016
- 5 min
Loving Pink and Being a Girl
I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 26, 2016
- 5 min
Unicorn Hunters
First, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...
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