Anticipatory Service
Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 26, 2020
- 1 min
Deepening Your Submission Resources
Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 28, 2020
- 8 min
So You Want to Try a Threesome…
One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 9, 2019
- 4 min
10 Things Every Bottom Should Know
Guest Post by Peter Minkoff (Homo Culture Magazine) *This article is written mostly for gay men but has great advice for anyone engaging...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 3, 2019
- 5 min
What Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-Monogamy
Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 18, 2019
- 3 min
Why Collars Are Important to BDSM
Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 11, 2019
- 4 min
What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9, 2019
- 1 min
Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 11, 2018
- 1 min
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 27, 2018
- 10 min
10 Things Everyone Can Learn from Kink
One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 23, 2018
- 5 min
5 Questions for a Kinky First Date
The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 9, 2018
- 6 min
5 Skills for Fighting Fair in Kinky Relationships
Healthy couples fight. Most healthy couples don’t fight often, but disagreements do arise, emotions heighten and we fight. Its actually a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 17, 2018
- 6 min
Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental Illness
It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 31, 2017
- 2 min
Talking to Fat Girls About Your Body
I am a fat girl. I have been for a long time. I don’t mince words or try and elide the fact that I am fat. I am okay with it. Most people...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 2, 2017
- 5 min
Can’t Find “The Right One?” You Might be the Problem
Again today, as with so many days, I came upon a thread of women bitching about “no good men left.” As with so many of these threads on...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 24, 2017
- 3 min
The Submissive Advantage
Submissives are some of the most seductive people in the world. Regardless of what we look like, if we are introverts or extroverts, or...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9, 2017
- 6 min
10 Things You Can Do To Increase Intimacy
I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2017
- 3 min
You Want Hair Where!?!
Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 20, 2016
- 3 min
Ethical Monogamy
People who practice ethical non-monogamy talk a lot about what it means to be ethical in a non-monogamous relationship. But what about...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 19, 2016
- 3 min
36 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner(s)
Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...
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