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Resources for the Apocalypse (and February Newsletter)
Resources to help manage existential dread
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 118 min read


Queer Joy (or How to Survive the Apocalypse)
Queer joy is essential to surviving the next 4- 40 years. Why and how to harness your joy.
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 204 min read


Your Story is a Revolution
The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20245 min read


I'm Voting "Pro Ho"
I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 28, 20243 min read


Mark Robinson, Sex Sites, and Politics
I was appointed to political office while active on a porn site. Here are my thoughts on the Mark Robinson scandal. I moved to California...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 9, 20248 min read


Fight Capitalism One Wank at a Time!
Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20245 min read


Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?
I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 11, 20225 min read


Unfuck Yourself for Pride
Being part of the LGBTQ+ community means growning up in societies where we are not supported or embraced by the majority. If we are lucky...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 10, 20224 min read


“No White People Left Behind”
Imani Barbarin I had a wonderful conversation with disabilities activist Imani Barbarin. You can hear our conversation here or the...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 17, 20222 min read


EARN IT Act: Using the pretense of child sexual exploitation to invade privacy
Ah, politicians are once again engaging in a favorite past-time: fanning fears of massive child predator rings as a pretense to get rid...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 9, 20226 min read


Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 13, 20216 min read


Is BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years later
Four years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20213 min read


Pride: Be Queer. Fuck the Patriarchy
Happy Pride Month! This year Pride has been cancelled in most locations due to COVID-19 and celebrations are looking a bit different....
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 12, 20205 min read


I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?
I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 2, 20196 min read


Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”
For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 25, 20188 min read


Free the Pussy, Free the World
I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 2, 20182 min read


Adding the K to “LGBTQ+” – NO
There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 4, 20184 min read


Consent 201
It’s great that vanilla America is finally discovering the idea of consent. Not our judges or politicians apparently, but a large number...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 8, 20186 min read


Beyond ” Me Too”
This weekend, the call for women (sic, originals post was problematically gendered) to post “me too” on their Facebook page to indicate...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 16, 20175 min read


Olly Olly Oxen Free
We come out today because Cleve designed and Gilbert sewed; Alvin danced And RuPaul doesn’t always wear pants. Leslie got the Stone Butch...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 11, 20171 min read
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