https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bhbzt-12a4b26 Guest: Ayzad Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-s7hhi-129b90f Guest: Nika Cherrelle: podcaster, fine artist/sculpture, educator, coash Nika...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bfdtq-1275824 Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator Mir Green joins Fat...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-mfj2a-12413e4 Guest: Rahim Thawer, therapist, college professor Rahim Thawer is a therapist...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-xu7tt-1231ac8 Guest: Dabby Longlegs, burlesque and drag performer Dabby Longlegs, burlesque, drag,...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-x8y8x-12006f8 Guest: Imani Barbarin, disabilities advocate Imani Barbarin (crutches and spice)...

It’s that time of year again! Time to spend days online and in stores looking for great gifts for family, friends, and co-workers forcing...

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

Four years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...

Happy Pride Month! This year Pride has been cancelled in most locations due to COVID-19 and celebrations are looking a bit different....

We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...

I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...

It’s June, Pride Month. I have been out for three decades and have spent most of that time as a queer rights advocate. I have very mixed...

Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...

I have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...

I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...

I want to address the apparently growing trend of discovering and practicing kink without connecting to actual humans you are not having...

Everyone fucks up. It is the result of being human beings. Pride this year has presented one million more ways for us to screw up and...

It’s Pride month again. This is the second year pride comes when I have a male partner and we are exclusive. This makes pride events...

Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...