Consent, 2016 Style
Consent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 4, 2016
- 5 min
Why I Stopped Caring About Gay Pride Events
Its June, which means its Gay Pride Month (or LGBT Pride, or LGBTQAAI Month, or whatever). Most cities, large and small, have some...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 24, 2016
- 4 min
Relationship Red Flags
There are subtle and not so subtle signs a relationship won’t work out. The primary one I have learned to look for over the years is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 16, 2016
- 5 min
Comimg Out
I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 15, 2016
- 3 min
You Are Not as Poly or Mono As You Think
I spend a lot of time talking to people and reading social media boards by both polyamorous and monogamous folks. Universally, people are...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 9, 2016
- 4 min
Its a Phase
I debated a lot before I decided to post this blog entry. I have been active in the LGBTQ movement for thirty years now. I know the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 6, 2016
- 5 min
Measuring Up: Part Two
I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 2, 2016
- 4 min
Consent.
I was working on my next blog post about measures around sex and research findings and planned on posting it today, then the American...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 30, 2016
- 3 min
Sex Facts: Measuring Up
People have a ton of questions about how they match up against others in bed. Most of us are confident with one skill and question our...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 26, 2016
- 3 min
Is This Weird???
Simple answer… yes, yes it is. Regardless of what you do, it is weird to someone. One the the most shocking things I do or say is that I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 25, 2016
- 3 min
Am I Doing this Right????
Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 21, 2016
- 2 min
Why Submission?
I have been preparing to teach a class at subCON this weekend in NYC. The great thing about teaching any subject is that you are forced...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 5, 2016
- 1 min
Confession
April is National Poetry Month! In Sacramento, there are a bunch of poets celebrating by doing guerrilla performances of their work. Here...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 3, 2016
- 5 min
On Virtue and Vice
8? 25? 105? 300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 22, 2016
- 6 min
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!
We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 18, 2016
- 3 min
Parenting Beyond the Binary
Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 10, 2016
- 5 min
Feminist Porn?
Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 4, 2016
- 7 min
Seeking BBC…
I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 1, 2016
- 5 min
Is Submission a Gift?
“Submission is a gift.” I hear that phrase constantly in the kink community. I hear submissives say it. I hear Dom(me)s say it. Switches...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 26, 2016
- 5 min
Loving Pink and Being a Girl
I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...
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