Rebecca BlantonSep 12, 20164 minOn CertaintyAt some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...
Rebecca BlantonSep 7, 20165 minTriggersTalking about “triggers” and starting posts and group discussions with “trigger warnings” is now de riguer in the kink community. It has...
Rebecca BlantonSep 3, 20164 minProtecting Men with a National Safe WordBy now, you have probably seen images from BDSM/kink movies or pornography. You may have tied up a date or given someone a spanking. It’s...
Rebecca BlantonAug 28, 20163 minNaked, On Display, and EmpoweredI get naked in public… a lot. I do burlesque and performance art with a number of groups and much of it involves taking my clothes off....
Rebecca BlantonAug 21, 20165 minPolyamory as a Sexual Orientation???Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....
Rebecca BlantonAug 17, 20165 minDo It For the Children! Media RepresentationWhat is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement, but most people- even those who agree- often...
Rebecca BlantonAug 2, 20165 minD-types and Mental IllnessAfter teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...
Rebecca BlantonJul 19, 20163 minThe Need to ServeService is quintessential to much of submission. Submissives of many ilks incorporate some form of service into their submission. We...
Rebecca BlantonJul 11, 20164 minWhy are you surprised???When I woke to news of the mass murders in Orlando last month I was devastated. The pain was visceral. I cried for days. Dozens of my...