HUMP Festival Entry – FDA Approved
Ok, so for all of you unfamiliar with the HUMP Festival, here is the down low: Its an amateur porn festival sponsored by The Stranger in...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 28, 2015
- 6 min
Mantra
I stand on the shoulders of giants. Men and women and transfolks who came before me, fought the impossible fights, loved with great...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 24, 2015
- 4 min
Chasing the O
Being part of the kink and BDSM community provides an alternative conception of what is a good sexual encounter.In the vanilla-ish...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 20, 2015
- 8 min
We Need to Talk
We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 18, 2015
- 4 min
Humiliation Play
Humiliation is something that most people avoid if at all possible. Many of us have had that moment at work or with friends where...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 10, 2015
- 6 min
Six Questions EVERYONE Should Answer About Sex (and 5 To Stop Asking Sexual and Gender Minorities)
I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 6, 2015
- 9 min
Discipline, Punishment and Abuse
I went to a meeting of submissives this week and an interesting discussion question was posed: What is the difference between discipline,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 3, 2015
- 8 min
Kink Visibility
I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 25, 2015
- 5 min
Agendered
We are all born naked. Everything else is drag. ~RuPaul I want to take a concept from sexual orientation and evolve it to relate to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 22, 2015
- 4 min
How to NOT Interview a Kinkster:Real Answers to Lazy Vanilla Reporter Quesions
Now that I have been doing interviews with mainstream media folks about kink and non-monogamy, I am learning there are some pretty...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 19, 2015
- 5 min
Loving Black Men
The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 16, 2015
- 9 min
10 Things for Newbies to Think About
I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 15, 2015
- 6 min
Loving a Sub with Mental Illness
I live with Bipolar I. I have since I was about 11, diagnosed at 20. It is fundamental to who I am and I have never not thought about it...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 13, 2015
- 4 min
The Flavor of “Sir”
I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 10, 2015
- 6 min
On Bondage
The more I talk to people about the kink and BDSM world, the more I realize how many people do not see this world the way I do. For some...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 5, 2015
- 5 min
On Marriage
I will begin by saying that I am thrilled five of the members of the Supreme Court were enlightened enough to understand that gay...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 23, 2015
- 4 min
Faking It
Let’s be honest, most of us at some point have faked an orgasm. Even the guys I know have fessed up to faking it on occasion. Yes, I know...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 12, 2015
- 3 min
Let’s Talk About Sex (Ed) Baby
We need to talk about sex education in America. I will not do the topic justice in one post. I would encourage everybody to check out the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2015
- 6 min
Is Jealousy Ever Healthy in a Relationship?
The above image was posted on a poly board I am a part of and it started a short conversation. I had more to say about it than a Facebook...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 16, 2015
- 7 min
Feminism, Bad Feminism, Choice, and Submission
I am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...
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