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We are all born naked. Everything else is drag. ~RuPaul I want to take a concept from sexual orientation and evolve it to relate to...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 22, 2015
- 4 min
How to NOT Interview a Kinkster:Real Answers to Lazy Vanilla Reporter Quesions
Now that I have been doing interviews with mainstream media folks about kink and non-monogamy, I am learning there are some pretty...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 19, 2015
- 5 min
Loving Black Men
The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 16, 2015
- 9 min
10 Things for Newbies to Think About
I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 15, 2015
- 6 min
Loving a Sub with Mental Illness
I live with Bipolar I. I have since I was about 11, diagnosed at 20. It is fundamental to who I am and I have never not thought about it...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 13, 2015
- 4 min
The Flavor of “Sir”
I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 10, 2015
- 6 min
On Bondage
The more I talk to people about the kink and BDSM world, the more I realize how many people do not see this world the way I do. For some...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 5, 2015
- 5 min
On Marriage
I will begin by saying that I am thrilled five of the members of the Supreme Court were enlightened enough to understand that gay...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 23, 2015
- 4 min
Faking It
Let’s be honest, most of us at some point have faked an orgasm. Even the guys I know have fessed up to faking it on occasion. Yes, I know...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 12, 2015
- 3 min
Let’s Talk About Sex (Ed) Baby
We need to talk about sex education in America. I will not do the topic justice in one post. I would encourage everybody to check out the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2015
- 6 min
Is Jealousy Ever Healthy in a Relationship?
The above image was posted on a poly board I am a part of and it started a short conversation. I had more to say about it than a Facebook...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 16, 2015
- 7 min
Feminism, Bad Feminism, Choice, and Submission
I am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 29, 2015
- 7 min
Myths About Submission
I want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 20, 2015
- 1 min
Vanilla Mispreceptions
I always have to laugh a little when vanilla folks ask me what I did with friends over a weekend. Whenever I say something like “Dinner...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 20, 2015
- 6 min
Race Play
Conceptions and understanding of race in America have long fascinated me. Race, at least for Americans, is generally a primary...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 7, 2015
- 4 min
“Normaling” – Kinky Folks and Vanilla Sex
I need to clear something up. Kinky folks do not use the term “vanilla” as a derogatory term. For us, it is simply a way to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 17, 2015
- 8 min
The Language of Love – And Why It Fails Me
I have a language problem. No, it’s not cursing (living with a 14 year old made me clean that up). It has to do with the language we use...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2015
- 8 min
New to Kink? Curios about BDSM? Start here
This is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 21, 2015
- 6 min
Non-Monogamy – Its More Popular Than You Think
For a long time it was odd to me that I could be in a social situation where my multiple intimate partners were present, we would all be...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 18, 2015
- 4 min
Finding Love in a French Press
Like most American girls, I was raised with a specific idea of what romance looked like. Romance was a guy bringing you flowers on the...
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