7 Ways to Expand Your Dynamic
BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 28, 2022
- 4 min
The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 15, 2022
- 3 min
Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 21, 2022
- 2 min
One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 5, 2022
- 6 min
Head Space 101
If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 1, 2021
- 3 min
Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 20, 2021
- 3 min
What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 12, 2021
- 4 min
5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 18, 2021
- 4 min
BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 16, 2021
- 7 min
How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 2, 2021
- 4 min
Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2021
- 5 min
Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats
Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 28, 2021
- 12 min
What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 22, 2021
- 3 min
Expanding Your Kink
January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 8, 2020
- 9 min
Subordinate Clause
Happy Holidays! Here is a little kinky holiday porn for y’all. CW: Impact play, body fluids Elise sat by the fire on the early morning of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 3, 2020
- 3 min
New Year! Better, Kinkier YOU!
I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 15, 2020
- 4 min
Anticipatory Service
Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 14, 2020
- 10 min
30 Days of Kinky Self Discovery
A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 23, 2020
- 8 min
Fisting 101
So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2020
- 3 min
BDSM Resources (updated 01.09.22)
I’ve been asked by several folx to provide a set of good readings on D/s dynamics. While this is far from a complete list, here is a good...
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