Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 25, 2021
- 3 min
Sexy Valentine’s Day Inspirations!
Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching (again). Even if you are jaded toward this corporate day of forced romance and sex, you can still...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 16, 2020
- 10 min
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 23, 2020
- 8 min
Fisting 101
So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 7, 2020
- 6 min
Turn Your Kitchen Into Kink Central!
Pervertables – items intended for non-kinky purposes used for kink play – are some of my favorite toys! I love incorporating everyday...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 12, 2019
- 6 min
Add a Buzz to Your Sex Life: Introducing Toys
The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 29, 2019
- 6 min
Flip It and Reverse It: Protocols for Dominants
I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2019
- 7 min
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 1, 2018
- 6 min
How to Love Your Anxious Partner
Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 4, 2018
- 5 min
Planning a Scene
I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 17, 2018
- 6 min
Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental Illness
It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 7, 2017
- 5 min
Help! I’m Kinky and I’m Broke!
The U.S. kink community, like the rest of the United States, is experiencing a growing divide between the “haves” and “have-nots.” As...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 18, 2016
- 5 min
The Good, the Bad, the Ugly
I want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 4, 2015
- 6 min
Open Letter to Dominants
Dear Doms and Dommes: Thank you. Thank you for enjoying your role on the left of the slash. Without you, my life would not be nearly as...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 15, 2015
- 8 min
Fantasy Versus Reality
Copyright Eddy-Shinjuku. All rights reserved. I have the great pleasure of talking to lots of people about their fantasies. Some of this...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 7, 2015
- 7 min
Six-Way Sex
I teach a class about setting a scene from the submissive’s perspective. I spend about 90 minutes talking about engaging the 5 senses and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 14, 2015
- 7 min
#1 Tip For Amazing Sex
Want to have amazing sex, and I mean mind-blowingly good sex? Want your partners to think you are the best they have ever had? Want to...
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