Sex toys are prolific! They range from the cheap to the ridiculously expensive. From reputable brands to knock-offs to independent...

If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...

One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...

Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...

Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...

Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...

Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...

Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching (again). Even if you are jaded toward this corporate day of forced romance and sex, you can still...

Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...

So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...

Pervertables – items intended for non-kinky purposes used for kink play – are some of my favorite toys! I love incorporating everyday...

The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....

Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...

It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...

The U.S. kink community, like the rest of the United States, is experiencing a growing divide between the “haves” and “have-nots.” As...

I want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...

Dear Doms and Dommes: Thank you. Thank you for enjoying your role on the left of the slash. Without you, my life would not be nearly as...