I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...

In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...

BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...

When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...

If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...

Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...

It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...

Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...

Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...

Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...

In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...

You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...