I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...

One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...

January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...

Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...

Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...

A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...

Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...

One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...

Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...

Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...

Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....

One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...

Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...

The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...

The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....