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Kink-Life Balance: Is 24/7 Really for You?
In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...
Rebecca Blanton
May 3, 20224 min read
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Rain De Grey: Creating All the Things
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-nedai-12123a6 Guest: Rain De Grey (author, performer, advice columnist, podcaster) Rain De Grey...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 30, 20221 min read
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Gretchen Felker-Martin: Divine Filth
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-kwgdh-120c5fd Guest: Gretchen Felker-Martin This episode, Gretchen Felker-Martin author of Manhunt...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 24, 20221 min read
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7 Ways to Expand Your Dynamic
BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 22, 20224 min read
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Imani Barbarin: Black, Disabled JOY!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-x8y8x-12006f8 Guest: Imani Barbarin, disabilities advocate Imani Barbarin (crutches and spice)...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 17, 20221 min read
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“No White People Left Behind”
Imani Barbarin I had a wonderful conversation with disabilities activist Imani Barbarin. You can hear our conversation here or the...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 17, 20222 min read
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Summer Reading List
Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 11, 20221 min read
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The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20224 min read
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Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20223 min read
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Ep 203: Alex Yarde
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8frbs-11cd6d7 Ep. 203 Guest: Alex Yarde, Good Men Project “All Things Geek” Co-Host: CharRon...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 12, 20221 min read
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Xavier Bettencourt: So Gay!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-6vy5n-11c3ab6 Episode 202 Title: Xavier Bettencourt: So Gay! Guest: Xavier Bettencourt, comedian...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 5, 20221 min read
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Ep. 201: EARNIT Act & Rainbow Kisses
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-fwe4r-11ba36a We’re BACK!!! EARNIT ACT– Sen. Lindsay Graham is trying to create a way to allow...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 27, 20221 min read
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One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 21, 20222 min read
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EARN IT Act: Using the pretense of child sexual exploitation to invade privacy
Ah, politicians are once again engaging in a favorite past-time: fanning fears of massive child predator rings as a pretense to get rid...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 9, 20226 min read
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Head Space 101
If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 5, 20226 min read
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How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 24, 20224 min read
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Fetlife How-To’s
Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 17, 20221 min read
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Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 12, 20224 min read
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Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 26, 20212 min read
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Which Wand is Right for You
There are many different types and styles of wand vibrators available. How do you know which one works for you? Your Auntie is here to...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 13, 20215 min read
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