How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 29, 2021
- 4 min
7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 22, 2021
- 7 min
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 7, 2021
- 6 min
14 Ideas to Embrace the True Spirit of Pride
It’s Pride month. Time to celebrate being your kinky, queer self! It is also the time of year for a deluge of rainbow-colored ads...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 4, 2021
- 2 min
25 Books to Read & 25 Movies to Watch this PRIDE Month
Books This is a list of queer books that have stayed with me. I provide only the citation and genre so that you can enjoy them without...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 2, 2021
- 4 min
Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 28, 2021
- 2 min
What Do Kinky Girls Keep in Their Bedside Table?
We all know that drawer- the on in the bedside table which houses all the most used, go-to devices and more! I keep all my most essential...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2021
- 5 min
Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats
Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 13, 2021
- 6 min
Sex Toy Buying Guide
Sex toys are prolific! They range from the cheap to the ridiculously expensive. From reputable brands to knock-offs to independent...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 28, 2021
- 12 min
What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 12, 2021
- 4 min
10 New Role Play Ideas!
If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 9, 2021
- 4 min
Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 29, 2021
- 1 min
Essential Safety Gear for Kinky Play
Most people who teach kink and BDSM play classes will mention having the appropriate safety equipment around in case of emergency....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 15, 2021
- 4 min
7 Tips for Navigating the Post-COVID Kink World
Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 11, 2021
- 5 min
6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)
Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 8, 2021
- 6 min
9 Tips To Make Your Kink Venue More Accessible (Part 1)
I miss going to dungeons and play parties! I can’t wait for the world to finally be able to safely reopen. That said, I don’t want things...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2021
- 5 min
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 16, 2021
- 4 min
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 10, 2021
- 4 min
Do You Always Need a Safe Word?
Safe words are one of the most referenced kink ideas. The concept of a simple word which stops all action and indicates someone is not...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 25, 2021
- 3 min
Sexy Valentine’s Day Inspirations!
Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching (again). Even if you are jaded toward this corporate day of forced romance and sex, you can still...
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