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Head Space 101
If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 5, 20226 min read


How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 24, 20224 min read


Fetlife How-To’s
Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 17, 20221 min read


Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 12, 20224 min read


Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 26, 20212 min read


Which Wand is Right for You
There are many different types and styles of wand vibrators available. How do you know which one works for you? Your Auntie is here to...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 13, 20215 min read


Abortion Must Be Safe
This blog mainly focues on kink and BDSM. However, any person having sex has skin in the game when it comes to keeping abortion safe,...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 6, 20214 min read


Which Nipple Clips are Right for You?
There are many styles of nipple clips out there? How do you find the one’s which are right for you? Nipples are erogenous zones for all...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 29, 20213 min read


Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 1, 20213 min read


BDSM Tips for Beginners
Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20215 min read


2021 Holiday Gift Guide
It’s that time of year again! Time to spend days online and in stores looking for great gifts for family, friends, and co-workers forcing...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 22, 20211 min read


Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 13, 20216 min read


4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex
By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 7, 20215 min read


What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 20, 20213 min read


5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 12, 20214 min read


Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 2, 20214 min read


BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 18, 20214 min read


An Introduction to Body Affirming Kink Play
Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 15, 20213 min read


7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20215 min read


Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 22, 20216 min read
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