Rebecca BlantonJul 16, 20217 minHow Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
Rebecca BlantonJun 29, 20214 min7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink SitesIn a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
Rebecca BlantonJun 22, 20217 min7 Tips for Hosting an OrgyAs more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
Rebecca BlantonJun 7, 20216 min14 Ideas to Embrace the True Spirit of PrideIt’s Pride month. Time to celebrate being your kinky, queer self! It is also the time of year for a deluge of rainbow-colored ads...
Rebecca BlantonJun 4, 20212 min25 Books to Read & 25 Movies to Watch this PRIDE MonthBooks This is a list of queer books that have stayed with me. I provide only the citation and genre so that you can enjoy them without...
Rebecca BlantonJun 2, 20214 minWhy Mantras Are Important to BDSMYou are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
Rebecca BlantonMay 28, 20212 minWhat Do Kinky Girls Keep in Their Bedside Table?We all know that drawer- the on in the bedside table which houses all the most used, go-to devices and more! I keep all my most essential...
Rebecca BlantonMay 25, 20215 minDo This BEFORE a Partner CheatsListen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...
Rebecca BlantonMay 13, 20216 minSex Toy Buying GuideSex toys are prolific! They range from the cheap to the ridiculously expensive. From reputable brands to knock-offs to independent...