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Abortion Must Be Safe
This blog mainly focues on kink and BDSM. However, any person having sex has skin in the game when it comes to keeping abortion safe,...
Rebecca Blanton
Dec 6, 20214 min read
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Which Nipple Clips are Right for You?
There are many styles of nipple clips out there? How do you find the one’s which are right for you? Nipples are erogenous zones for all...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 29, 20213 min read
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Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 1, 20213 min read
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BDSM Tips for Beginners
Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20215 min read
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2021 Holiday Gift Guide
It’s that time of year again! Time to spend days online and in stores looking for great gifts for family, friends, and co-workers forcing...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 22, 20211 min read
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Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 13, 20216 min read
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4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex
By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 7, 20215 min read
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What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 20, 20213 min read
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5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 12, 20214 min read
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Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 2, 20214 min read
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BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 18, 20214 min read
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An Introduction to Body Affirming Kink Play
Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 15, 20213 min read
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7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20215 min read
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Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 22, 20216 min read
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How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20217 min read
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7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 29, 20214 min read
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7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
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14 Ideas to Embrace the True Spirit of Pride
It’s Pride month. Time to celebrate being your kinky, queer self! It is also the time of year for a deluge of rainbow-colored ads...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 7, 20216 min read
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25 Books to Read & 25 Movies to Watch this PRIDE Month
Books This is a list of queer books that have stayed with me. I provide only the citation and genre so that you can enjoy them without...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 4, 20212 min read
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Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 2, 20214 min read
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