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BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 18, 20214 min read
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An Introduction to Body Affirming Kink Play
Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 15, 20213 min read
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7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20215 min read
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Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 22, 20216 min read
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How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20217 min read
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7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 29, 20214 min read
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7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
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14 Ideas to Embrace the True Spirit of Pride
It’s Pride month. Time to celebrate being your kinky, queer self! It is also the time of year for a deluge of rainbow-colored ads...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 7, 20216 min read
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Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 2, 20214 min read
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Sex Toy Buying Guide
Sex toys are prolific! They range from the cheap to the ridiculously expensive. From reputable brands to knock-offs to independent...
Rebecca Blanton
May 13, 20216 min read
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What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 28, 202112 min read
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10 New Role Play Ideas!
If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 12, 20214 min read
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Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 9, 20214 min read
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Essential Safety Gear for Kinky Play
Most people who teach kink and BDSM play classes will mention having the appropriate safety equipment around in case of emergency....
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 29, 20211 min read
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7 Tips for Navigating the Post-COVID Kink World
Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20214 min read
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6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)
Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 11, 20215 min read
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9 Tips To Make Your Kink Venue More Accessible (Part 1)
I miss going to dungeons and play parties! I can’t wait for the world to finally be able to safely reopen. That said, I don’t want things...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 8, 20216 min read
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7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20215 min read
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Do You Always Need a Safe Word?
Safe words are one of the most referenced kink ideas. The concept of a simple word which stops all action and indicates someone is not...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 10, 20214 min read
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Sexy Valentine’s Day Inspirations!
Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching (again). Even if you are jaded toward this corporate day of forced romance and sex, you can still...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 25, 20213 min read
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