Anticipatory Service
Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 14, 2020
- 10 min
30 Days of Kinky Self Discovery
A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 23, 2020
- 8 min
Fisting 101
So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2020
- 3 min
BDSM Resources (updated 01.09.22)
I’ve been asked by several folx to provide a set of good readings on D/s dynamics. While this is far from a complete list, here is a good...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 4, 2020
- 3 min
Submission and Control
A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 22, 2020
- 4 min
Six Sexting Tips
With shelter in place orders dragging on more folks are trying sexting and sexy video chatting as an alternative to in-person hook-ups....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 9, 2020
- 3 min
How to Swing Safely During the COVID-19 Pandemic
Sponsored post: Swingtown Half the world has shut down and it’s expected to be around 14 months — at least — before a coronavirus vaccine...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 26, 2020
- 1 min
Deepening Your Submission Resources
Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 18, 2020
- 3 min
Sex in the Apocalypse
Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 19, 2020
- 6 min
5 Ways BDSM Will Improve Your Life
Most people think BDSM is just about the sex. It is often reduced to sexual and sexualized acts, especially in mainstream media...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 7, 2020
- 6 min
Turn Your Kitchen Into Kink Central!
Pervertables – items intended for non-kinky purposes used for kink play – are some of my favorite toys! I love incorporating everyday...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 28, 2020
- 8 min
So You Want to Try a Threesome…
One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 21, 2020
- 6 min
National “Weird Sex” Day
Valentine’s Day in America is basically the National Day for Weird Sex. After the age of 18 most of us feel the social pressure to do...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 14, 2020
- 7 min
10 Things EVERY Kinky Person Should Try
We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9, 2020
- 3 min
Embracing Sex Writing
I am an accidental sex/kink blogger. This site started five years ago as a book promotion site for a book I really didn’t think too many...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 28, 2019
- 5 min
Introduction to Cock and Ball Bondage
Guest Post by Jett Oxy Perhaps you have always fantasized about binding balls, but not quite sure about your ability to pull it off?...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 5, 2019
- 5 min
Pain and Presence
There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 23, 2019
- 1 min
Queer Women
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-t9uxf-c0a7c8 Episode 15: Queer Women Hosts: Auntie Vice and Amy Estes Guests: Shahera Hyatt...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 14, 2019
- 5 min
Pain. The Good, The Bad, the Fun!
There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 27, 2019
- 4 min
Sexier Sex? Plan for it!
I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...
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