I'm Voting "Pro Ho"
I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20221 min read
Rae Luna: I Know I’m Hot
Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 11, 20221 min read
Summer Reading List
Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 13, 20216 min read
Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 12, 20214 min read
5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 22, 20217 min read
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20215 min read
Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats
Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 9, 20203 min read
How to Swing Safely During the COVID-19 Pandemic
Sponsored post: Swingtown Half the world has shut down and it’s expected to be around 14 months — at least — before a coronavirus vaccine...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 28, 20208 min read
So You Want to Try a Threesome…
One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20195 min read
What Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-Monogamy
Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20194 min read
What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 27, 20165 min read
It Burns When I Pee!!!
Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 21, 20165 min read
Polyamory as a Sexual Orientation???
Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 16, 20164 min read
Sex-First! Polyamory Culture
First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 15, 20163 min read
You Are Not as Poly or Mono As You Think
I spend a lot of time talking to people and reading social media boards by both polyamorous and monogamous folks. Universally, people are...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 26, 20165 min read
Unicorn Hunters
First, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 21, 20153 min read
Cheating
If you practice consensual non-monogamy, can you cheat? The short answer is, “Yes.” I practice ethical non-monogamy. My friends who are...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20154 min read
World AIDS Day
HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 18, 20154 min read
So, you want to date a poly girl…
Guys, some of us girls have found out your secrets. We know that there are a lot of you who use online dating sites to find Ms. Right Now...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 28, 20156 min read
Mantra
I stand on the shoulders of giants. Men and women and transfolks who came before me, fought the impossible fights, loved with great...
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