I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...

Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...

Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...

Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

Sponsored post: Swingtown Half the world has shut down and it’s expected to be around 14 months — at least — before a coronavirus vaccine...

One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...

Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...

I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...

Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...

Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....

First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...

I spend a lot of time talking to people and reading social media boards by both polyamorous and monogamous folks. Universally, people are...

First, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...

If you practice consensual non-monogamy, can you cheat? The short answer is, “Yes.” I practice ethical non-monogamy. My friends who are...

HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...

Guys, some of us girls have found out your secrets. We know that there are a lot of you who use online dating sites to find Ms. Right Now...

I stand on the shoulders of giants. Men and women and transfolks who came before me, fought the impossible fights, loved with great...