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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 3, 2020
- 3 min
New Year! Better, Kinkier YOU!
I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 30, 2020
- 4 min
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 31, 2020
- 5 min
Election 2020 and Erotic Power
With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 17, 2020
- 3 min
How Your Body and Sex Appeal Change as You Age
Guest Post By Peter Minkoff As we age, many things will unavoidably change – for the better of the worse. But you know what? Even though...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 14, 2020
- 10 min
30 Days of Kinky Self Discovery
A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 26, 2020
- 1 min
Deepening Your Submission Resources
Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 28, 2020
- 8 min
So You Want to Try a Threesome…
One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9, 2020
- 3 min
Embracing Sex Writing
I am an accidental sex/kink blogger. This site started five years ago as a book promotion site for a book I really didn’t think too many...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 2, 2019
- 6 min
I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?
I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 23, 2019
- 6 min
Adult Playtime: Adding Games to Your Love Life
One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 2, 2019
- 3 min
7 Reasons to Masturbate Regularly
Most folks I meet assume that I have sex all the time so I must not need to masturbate. Truth be told, my partner lives a couple of hours...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 11, 2018
- 1 min
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 27, 2018
- 10 min
10 Things Everyone Can Learn from Kink
One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 31, 2018
- 3 min
What 100 Hours of Talking to Sexy Peeps Taught Me
I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 2, 2018
- 4 min
Make Pride Queer Again
It’s June, Pride Month. I have been out for three decades and have spent most of that time as a queer rights advocate. I have very mixed...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 22, 2018
- 4 min
Identifying vs. Becoming
In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 2, 2018
- 2 min
Free the Pussy, Free the World
I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 4, 2018
- 4 min
Adding the K to “LGBTQ+” – NO
There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 22, 2018
- 5 min
7 Tips for the New Switch
So you want to try switching things up. Great! There are a lot of benefits to switching power positions (e.g., a submissive trying...
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