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The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 34 min read
Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms
Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 293 min read
Communicating About Sex is Hard! Make It Easier with These Tips
The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 87 min read
Sex & Menopause
The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 28, 20235 min read
Guide to Making Butt Stuff FUN!
This post has been sponsored by LoveHoney. Curious about anal sex? Not a fan of anal sex but want to try other butt stuff? Your Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 25, 20234 min read
Male Masturbation: A touchy subject
This article was sponsored by LoveHoney. I personally endorse their toys! Check out my review here. Male Masturbation: A touchy subject...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 28, 20233 min read
Deeper and Deeper....
The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 7, 20234 min read
Negotiating Flexibility Into Your Dynamic
So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20233 min read
Resolutions and Practices of Happy Couples
Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 19, 20225 min read
Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top, you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 26, 20226 min read
This Could Save Your Life!
Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20222 min read
A Sexy Bucket List: How many have you done?
I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 17, 20221 min read
Fetlife How-To’s
Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 13, 20215 min read
Which Wand is Right for You
There are many different types and styles of wand vibrators available. How do you know which one works for you? Your Auntie is here to...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 29, 20213 min read
Which Nipple Clips are Right for You?
There are many styles of nipple clips out there? How do you find the one’s which are right for you? Nipples are erogenous zones for all...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 1, 20213 min read
Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 7, 20215 min read
4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex
By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 20, 20213 min read
What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 2, 20214 min read
Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 22, 20216 min read
Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...
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