Rebecca BlantonJan 22, 20213 minExpanding Your KinkJanuary 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...
Rebecca BlantonJan 11, 20213 minIs BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years laterFour years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...
Rebecca BlantonDec 8, 20209 minSubordinate ClauseHappy Holidays! Here is a little kinky holiday porn for y’all. CW: Impact play, body fluids Elise sat by the fire on the early morning of...
Rebecca BlantonDec 3, 20203 minNew Year! Better, Kinkier YOU!I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...
Rebecca BlantonNov 30, 20204 minVaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
Rebecca BlantonNov 21, 20205 minHappy Spanksgiving! Holiday Gift Ideas for the Kinky SetThe saying is giving is better than recieving, but I think that depends on what side of the slash you are working from! Looking for...
Rebecca BlantonNov 16, 202010 minHaving a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
Rebecca BlantonOct 31, 20205 minElection 2020 and Erotic PowerWith the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...
Rebecca BlantonOct 15, 20204 minAnticipatory ServiceMany of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...