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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20245 min read
Your Story is a Revolution
The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20245 min read
December Note from Auntie Vice
Navtivity of dicks thanks to a grab bag of tiny dicks from http://www.funkittoys.com Dear Readers: Welcome to the holiday madness! I am...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 6, 20247 min read
A Community Survivial Guide
Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 28, 20243 min read
I'm Voting "Pro Ho"
I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 9, 20248 min read
Mark Robinson, Sex Sites, and Politics
I was appointed to political office while active on a porn site. Here are my thoughts on the Mark Robinson scandal. I moved to California...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 3, 20244 min read
Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms
Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 23, 20246 min read
Can People with Mental Illness Consent?
Can people lliving with mental illness fully consent to BDSM play?
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20245 min read
Risk-Aware Kink Quiz
Take a short quiz and test your knowledge of Risk Aware Kink!
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Rebecca Blanton
May 9, 20244 min read
Are You Polyamorous?
Are You Polyamorous or is it Just Peer Pressure?
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 28, 20244 min read
Empath? Maybe. Trauma-Survivor? Probably.
Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 12, 20244 min read
Erotic Choking 101
There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20245 min read
Fight Capitalism One Wank at a Time!
Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 22, 20243 min read
Challenging Prejudice: Let's Talk About Sex Workers Rights
Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 29, 20243 min read
Communicating About Sex is Hard! Make It Easier with These Tips
The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 8, 20247 min read
Sex & Menopause
The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20243 min read
I Can’t Ask For That! What to do when you are embarrassed about what you want in bed
If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 7, 20245 min read
The Gift of "No."
We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 20, 20232 min read
Closing out 2023/Looking forward to 2024
Dear Readers: Thank you for staying with me for the year! Whether you recently found me or you are a long-term reader, I appreciate you...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 25, 20232 min read
2023 Annual Gift Guide
Looking for great gift ideas for everyone you like? I have some great small businesses and individuals offering amazing products,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 9, 20234 min read
Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy
Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...
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