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Rebecca Blanton
5 days ago8 min read
Resources for the Apocalypse (and February Newsletter)
Resources to help manage existential dread
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 204 min read
Queer Joy (or How to Survive the Apocalypse)
Queer joy is essential to surviving the next 4- 40 years. Why and how to harness your joy.
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20245 min read
Your Story is a Revolution
The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20245 min read
December Note from Auntie Vice
Navtivity of dicks thanks to a grab bag of tiny dicks from http://www.funkittoys.com Dear Readers: Welcome to the holiday madness! I am...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 6, 20247 min read
A Community Survivial Guide
Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 28, 20243 min read
I'm Voting "Pro Ho"
I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 9, 20248 min read
Mark Robinson, Sex Sites, and Politics
I was appointed to political office while active on a porn site. Here are my thoughts on the Mark Robinson scandal. I moved to California...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 3, 20244 min read
Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms
Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 23, 20246 min read
Can People with Mental Illness Consent?
Can people lliving with mental illness fully consent to BDSM play?
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20245 min read
Risk-Aware Kink Quiz
Take a short quiz and test your knowledge of Risk Aware Kink!
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Rebecca Blanton
May 9, 20244 min read
Are You Polyamorous?
Are You Polyamorous or is it Just Peer Pressure?
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 28, 20244 min read
Empath? Maybe. Trauma-Survivor? Probably.
Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 12, 20244 min read
Erotic Choking 101
There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20245 min read
Fight Capitalism One Wank at a Time!
Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 22, 20243 min read
Challenging Prejudice: Let's Talk About Sex Workers Rights
Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 29, 20243 min read
Communicating About Sex is Hard! Make It Easier with These Tips
The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 8, 20247 min read
Sex & Menopause
The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20243 min read
I Can’t Ask For That! What to do when you are embarrassed about what you want in bed
If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 7, 20245 min read
The Gift of "No."
We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 20, 20232 min read
Closing out 2023/Looking forward to 2024
Dear Readers: Thank you for staying with me for the year! Whether you recently found me or you are a long-term reader, I appreciate you...
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