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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 9
- 4 min
Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy
Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 22
- 8 min
Why I Support (Some) Gatekeeping in Kink
I will get back to posts about developing your desires shortly. There is currently a developing issue in the kink education world I feel...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 6
- 4 min
Asking for It
I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 28
- 5 min
Guide to Making Butt Stuff FUN!
This post has been sponsored by LoveHoney. Curious about anal sex? Not a fan of anal sex but want to try other butt stuff? Your Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 25
- 4 min
Male Masturbation: A touchy subject
This article was sponsored by LoveHoney. I personally endorse their toys! Check out my review here. Male Masturbation: A touchy subject...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 10
- 2 min
Become a Better Submissive by Understanding Internal Narratives
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.
(1)There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 28
- 3 min
Deeper and Deeper....
The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 13
- 7 min
Security Protocols: How Adding Protocols to Your Relationship May Reduce Anxiety
Anxiety is a common mental health issue. Protocols in a relationship can help reduce and manage it.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 7
- 4 min
Negotiating Flexibility Into Your Dynamic
So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9
- 3 min
Resolutions and Practices of Happy Couples
Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 19, 2022
- 4 min
Find a New Kink for 2023
As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 3, 2022
- 7 min
Grooming as BDSM and D/s
Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 19, 2022
- 3 min
Menopause Just as Likely to INCREASE Sex Drive as Decrease It
A Myth Busting Survey by Fun Factory and Momotaro Apotheca (post sponsored by Fun Factory) Highlighted Results ● 42% of women aged...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 7, 2022
- 5 min
Undoing Religious Damage with BDSM
How to start addressing trauma and damage from a sex-negative upbringing.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 21, 2022
- 1 min
Ayzad: Embracing Duende
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bhbzt-12a4b26 Guest: Ayzad Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 19, 2022
- 5 min
Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top, you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 14, 2022
- 1 min
Nika Cherrelle: Powerful Badass
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-s7hhi-129b90f Guest: Nika Cherrelle: podcaster, fine artist/sculpture, educator, coash Nika...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 8, 2022
- 1 min
Tallulah Breslin:Finding Your Voice
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-uvrgw-1293b1f Guest: Tallulah Breslin, gender-affirming voice coach Tallulah Breslin joins Fat...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 31, 2022
- 1 min
Mistress Schari: This Wasn’t Covered in the Book
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8ug3c-1289382 Guest: Mistress Schari, professional Dominatrix Mistress Shari has gone from...
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