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The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 13
- 7 min
Security Protocols: How Adding Protocols to Your Relationship May Reduce Anxiety
Anxiety is a common mental health issue. Protocols in a relationship can help reduce and manage it.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 7
- 4 min
Negotiating Flexibility Into Your Dynamic
So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9
- 3 min
Resolutions and Practices of Happy Couples
Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 19, 2022
- 4 min
Find a New Kink for 2023
As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 3, 2022
- 7 min
Grooming as BDSM and D/s
Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 19, 2022
- 3 min
Menopause Just as Likely to INCREASE Sex Drive as Decrease It
A Myth Busting Survey by Fun Factory and Momotaro Apotheca (post sponsored by Fun Factory) Highlighted Results ● 42% of women aged...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 7, 2022
- 5 min
Undoing Religious Damage with BDSM
How to start addressing trauma and damage from a sex-negative upbringing.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 21, 2022
- 1 min
Ayzad: Embracing Duende
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bhbzt-12a4b26 Guest: Ayzad Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 19, 2022
- 5 min
Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top, you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 14, 2022
- 1 min
Nika Cherrelle: Powerful Badass
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-s7hhi-129b90f Guest: Nika Cherrelle: podcaster, fine artist/sculpture, educator, coash Nika...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 8, 2022
- 1 min
Tallulah Breslin:Finding Your Voice
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-uvrgw-1293b1f Guest: Tallulah Breslin, gender-affirming voice coach Tallulah Breslin joins Fat...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 31, 2022
- 1 min
Mistress Schari: This Wasn’t Covered in the Book
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8ug3c-1289382 Guest: Mistress Schari, professional Dominatrix Mistress Shari has gone from...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 30, 2022
- 4 min
Why is sexting with strangers only possible on a secure chat site?
SPONSORED POST from AROUSR Chatting with strangers isn’t really something that you have to go out of your way to find. There are lots of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 26, 2022
- 6 min
This Could Save Your Life!
Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 24, 2022
- 1 min
Boss Boar: Its not about the knife
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-r8tci-128123b Guest: Boss Boar, kink educator Boss Boar is a kink educator who specializes in...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 24, 2022
- 2 min
Sexual Fantasy Research
Sponsored Post We don’t tend to talk about sexual fantasies with many people. Too many of us carry shame around the things we know turn...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 17, 2022
- 1 min
Mir Green: Caffinatrix
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bfdtq-1275824 Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator Mir Green joins Fat...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 11, 2022
- 5 min
Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?
I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 10, 2022
- 1 min
Dr. Liz Powell: Inviting Your In
Dr. Liz Powell https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-itk9c-126deea Guest: Dr. Liz Powell, Ph.D. and Therapist Dr. Liz Powell specializes...
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