Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 16, 2020
- 10 min
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 31, 2020
- 5 min
Election 2020 and Erotic Power
With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 23, 2020
- 8 min
Fisting 101
So, you want to try fisting. Or you heard about it. Or you tried it and it didn’t quite work. Well, let me welcome you to the wonderful...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 4, 2020
- 3 min
Submission and Control
A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 22, 2020
- 4 min
Six Sexting Tips
With shelter in place orders dragging on more folks are trying sexting and sexy video chatting as an alternative to in-person hook-ups....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 9, 2020
- 3 min
How to Swing Safely During the COVID-19 Pandemic
Sponsored post: Swingtown Half the world has shut down and it’s expected to be around 14 months — at least — before a coronavirus vaccine...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 18, 2020
- 3 min
Sex in the Apocalypse
Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 14, 2020
- 7 min
10 Things EVERY Kinky Person Should Try
We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 5, 2019
- 5 min
Pain and Presence
There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9, 2019
- 1 min
Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2019
- 7 min
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 1, 2018
- 6 min
How to Love Your Anxious Partner
Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 27, 2018
- 5 min
Sexual Healing (part 1)
The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 6, 2018
- 3 min
Want to Feel More Beautiful? Try This!
Most of us, whatever our gender, whatever our sexual orientation, do not love our bodies. Or, we do not love our bodies most of the time....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 18, 2018
- 6 min
R.E.S.P.E.C.T. & Relationships
Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 2, 2017
- 3 min
The Problem with Passing
I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 16, 2017
- 5 min
Get Out of Your Head!
I want to address the apparently growing trend of discovering and practicing kink without connecting to actual humans you are not having...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 16, 2017
- 4 min
Submission and Vulnerability
It is probably the most common thing I hear or see written about submission: The submissive is really the one in charge. The sub can stop...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 9, 2017
- 6 min
10 Things You Can Do To Increase Intimacy
I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...
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