As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...

You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...

We all know that drawer- the on in the bedside table which houses all the most used, go-to devices and more! I keep all my most essential...

I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...

Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...

Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...

Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...

A vast percentage of posts about submission and control (including mine) are about the relationship between a submissive and their...

With shelter in place orders dragging on more folks are trying sexting and sexy video chatting as an alternative to in-person hook-ups....

Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff (Homo Culture Magazine) *This article is written mostly for gay men but has great advice for anyone engaging...

Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...

Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...

Sorry for the click bait title, but it got you here. Now for some actual substance. I have been talking to a lot of folks over 40 about...

Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....

The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....