Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...

Social distancing has definitely put a cramp in many sex lives. Online dating profiles are now including things like, “I have toilet...

Most people think BDSM is just about the sex. It is often reduced to sexual and sexualized acts, especially in mainstream media...

Pervertables – items intended for non-kinky purposes used for kink play – are some of my favorite toys! I love incorporating everyday...

One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...

Valentine’s Day in America is basically the National Day for Weird Sex. After the age of 18 most of us feel the social pressure to do...

We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...

I am an accidental sex/kink blogger. This site started five years ago as a book promotion site for a book I really didn’t think too many...

Guest Post by Jett Oxy Perhaps you have always fantasized about binding balls, but not quite sure about your ability to pull it off?...

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff (Homo Culture Magazine) *This article is written mostly for gay men but has great advice for anyone engaging...

Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...

There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-t9uxf-c0a7c8 Episode 15: Queer Women Hosts: Auntie Vice and Amy Estes Guests: Shahera Hyatt...

There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...

Fear is innate to the kink experience. The is the fun and sexy fear of not knowing what is going to happen to you during a scene. There...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...